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April 21, 2019

Fixation is an obsessive interest in or feeling about someone or something.  We experience fixation every day by our cyber bully.  She is fixated on my life and me. 

When bullying occurs, people often place the blame on the victim.  Most of the time they false...

April 20, 2019

I work in a school that is in session Monday through Thursday so I have Fridays to do as I wish.  Since the weather people stated that it would be a sunny, warm day, I was up early working in our yard.  The grass is beginning to get tall.  Before Winter of last year, w...

April 18, 2019

It is natural for people to seek validation. How we achieve that sense of validation differs from one person to another. We all constantly battle with the feeling that we are not good enough and we may feel unappreciated. I believe the feeling of insecurity that accomp...

April 17, 2019

The word "taunt" means; to reproach in a mocking, insulting, or contemptuous manner.  Today my woman bully (yes, an adult woman who should know better, used such words as:

"People are funny on the internet. Things they would never do in public (where they could be conf...

April 15, 2019

This morning, our bully turned on the “charm” and is pretending to be a victim in order to manipulate others to take her side. This is bullying at its worst. When a bully acts like a victim, she also gains the unwitting compliance of others into bullying you. Naïve com...

April 14, 2019

Why does our bully bully?  Why does she continue in her quest of cyber bullying?  It happens for the same reason as any other type of bullying. It is appealing to her because it can be done from a distance.  She is a coward and refuses to face me one-on-one.  She wants...

April 14, 2019

Today was a beautiful Saturday filled with love, laughter, and hard work. Spring is here! I have starts in my garage ready for the warmth of soil and the heat of the sun. We have had to delay planting for a while due to cold temperatures and rain. I arise early on Satu...

April 13, 2019

When I hear this song, I think I am emotional because it tells of a kid succeeding despite difficulty. We have a bully, an adult woman who should know better. At first, we attempted avoidance in dealing with unkindness, ignore at all costs, helping she would go away. S...

April 10, 2019

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What is spiritual manipulation?  Spiritual manipulation is a technique used by abusive individuals to control others and acquire gain, all the while giving the impression that th...

April 8, 2019

With integrity, you have nothing to fear, since you have nothing to hide.

With integrity, you will do the right thing, so you will have not guilt.

~ Zig Ziglar

What a beautiful morning!!  The sun is shining with a few gray clouds and the air is cool and crisp.  My husband...

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