I was reading an interesting article about female children who turned into adult women and continued to bully. What happens as female bullies get older is that they become more sophisticated and they begin terrorizing one or others. We found this to be particularly true as we found out the childhood horror stories of our adult woman bully. If not in control of a situation, they can become outraged and violent. We have experienced such rants and I am sure we will continue to do so.
As adults, we have full control over how we live our lives and the people we allow in our lives. I have discovered that our woman bully is projecting her own insecurities on me. For example, she told the public that she owns 8 homes in three states. Yet, she cried to our attorney that she owns nothing. In her divorce, she signed over an old mobile home attached to her former husband's home. She claims to be self-employed and yet is to hold a job in the private sector but she so wanted me fired from my employment. Documentation of her ferocious acts are now public record and to date we have seen no monies paid on the judgment awarded to us. I have discovered that when she bullies, she elevates her own feelings by diminishing those of mine, gossiping, discounting, trying to cause others to reject me, and demean.
Life is too short to spend with people who treat you unjustly. As an adult, you must take responsibility for the energy you bring into your life and into the lives of those around you. It is our responsibility to do so.