One of the biggest changes to make is to let go of trying to control the outcome of every situation. I have learned this lesson these past months. What I have learned to realize is that the only thing I need to control is my reaction to a situation. Very rarely, can we control the situation itself. The need for control is rooted in fear and I am acting out of place of fear, I am not loving life.
It is important to be flexible. It means that I am open to different possibilities. I am growing weary of trying to explain myself so I have come to the crossroad that I know the truth and that is all that is important. I am allowed to be selfish. Always thinking about others is loving and living my life. I do not have to be distracted by anyone in my life with my goals and ambitions. I appreciate the person that pushes me to be better and more successful than I was the day before. This is my reward for loving life in the moment!